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If You Want To Address The Gender Wage Gap, Talk to White Women

Arah Iloabugichukwu | November 8, 2019January 6, 2020

What good is “allieship” when the allies can be bribed?

Children Are Having Tough Conversations, Just Not With Their Parents

Arah Iloabugichukwu | November 6, 2019January 6, 2020

Black children find themselves trying to understand in adulthood a world they’ve been experiencing since childhood.

Children Should Not Be Asked to Contribute To The Household Bills

Arah Iloabugichukwu | November 4, 2019November 4, 2019

We complain about starting our adult lives in deficit but do very little to ensure that our children don’t.

Why Don’t We Care About Black Girls Until They’ve Gone Missing?

Arah Iloabugichukwu | October 30, 2019October 30, 2019

There’s a reason the demand for Black girls is so high, it’s because the supply is too.

Rape Culture & The Cycle of Victimization In Black Greek Letter Organizations

Arah Iloabugichukwu | October 26, 2019October 28, 2019

Community service doesn’t absolve anyone of decades of indecency.

Keeping Family Dysfunction Behind Closed Doors Keeps The Family Dysfunctional

Arah Iloabugichukwu | October 26, 2019October 26, 2019

Healthy families don’t need secrets.

Toxic Parents And Absent Parents Produce the Same Kind of People

Arah Iloabugichukwu | October 22, 2019October 26, 2019

Because children inherit the work their parents don’t do.

Joshua Brown, The Unsolved Mystery We Can All See Coming

Arah Iloabugichukwu | October 9, 2019October 26, 2019

Justice has a color in America, that color is white.

A Seat At The Table Doesn’t Always Come With Permission To Speak

Arah Iloabugichukwu | September 13, 2019October 26, 2019

If the seat at the table doesn’t come with access to the rest of the house, maybe it’s not a seat worth occupying.

You Are Not A Victim, You Are Experiencing The Consequences of Your Dating Decisions

Arah Iloabugichukwu | September 4, 2019October 26, 2019

Sometimes you’re not the victim of some unforeseen, unpreventable heartbreak, sometimes you’re experiencing the consequences of your poor dating decisions, just like me.

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We decided not to ask for more; else, we lose what We decided not to ask for more; else, we lose what little we were already getting. And now look at us, thinking a little bit of abuse is better than being alone. 

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