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Child Support is not a Replacement for Physical Parenting

Arah Iloabugichukwu | February 23, 2020March 18, 2020

There’s a rumor going around that parenting begins and ends at the wallet. Not so

Surviving Trauma Doesn’t Make You An Expert on Healing

Arah Iloabugichukwu | February 15, 2020February 18, 2020

Congratulations, you’ve survived your trauma. Now it’s time to heal from it.

Can Black People Disagree Without Disrespect?

Arah Iloabugichukwu | February 15, 2020February 18, 2020

What about our disagreements calls for discord?

Stop Demanding Performative Blackness from Other Black People

Arah Iloabugichukwu | January 30, 2020February 18, 2020

Our Blackness is no more a costume than it is a curriculum

Cheating Is Not A Relationship Rite of Passage

Arah Iloabugichukwu | January 24, 2020February 18, 2020

We don’t get to the love we want by accepting deceit in its’ place.


We Need To Talk About What Happened The Last Time We Went Back To Africa

Arah Iloabugichukwu | January 13, 2020February 18, 2020

We are not as un-American as we think.

Black Life In White Pittsburgh: America Under a Microscope

Arah Iloabugichukwu | December 19, 2019January 6, 2020

Pittsburgh was never unlivable for the people it actually wanted living there.

Don’t Confuse Generational Curses With Poor Generational Choices

Arah Iloabugichukwu | December 12, 2019January 6, 2020

We can’t call it a curse if it’s the consequence of a conscious choice.

Who Taught Black Woman To Hate One Another?

Arah Iloabugichukwu | December 11, 2019January 6, 2020

Our greatest wins won’t be won against one another.

There’s A Middle Ground When Disciplining A Child, American Parents Need to Find it

Arah Iloabugichukwu | November 15, 2019November 20, 2019

Discipline doesn’t have to hurt to work.

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